HOW TO RELATE POSITIVELY WITH GREAT PEOPLE.
RULE No 1: HIDE YOUR "POVERTY FROM THEM".
The easiest way to shut down your relationship with great people is to carry your poverty on your
head in every discussion. Hide your poverty. I don't say form what you are not, be real but now it that" poverty scares them. "
RULE No 2: DON'T MAKE YOUR PROBLEM, THEIR PROBLEM.
Never make your problem their problem. If you must seek help, never pressurize them. Allow them to do it in their own way and time.
RULE No 3: LOOK FOR OPPORTUNITY TO GIVETHEM GIFT .
Gifts open their heart for your greatness. But you must give attaching no expectancy to it if the heart must stay open.
RULE No 4: DON'T CALL THEM WHEN YOU have Nothing SERIOUS TO SAY...
If you must check on them, send SMS.
RULE No 5: DON'T CALL THEM AMID PEOPLE, JUST TO SHOW YOU KNOW THEM AND SHOUTING THEIR NAMES ON PHONE.
RULE No 6: DON'T THROW YOURSELF AT THEM...
Be sensitive to know the degree to which they want your closeness.
RULE No 7: WHEN YOU ARE BROKE, AVOID SCROLLING DOWN YOUR CONTACTS AND BE CALLING...
Nothing closes their heart faster like seeing you as or being a financial burden to them.
RULE No 8: DON'T GOSSIP ANYTHING ABOUT THEM IN PUBLIC...
Protect their shortcomings and other things you are privy to.
RULE No 9: RELATE WITH THEM ACCORDING TO THEIR CURRENT LEVEL...
Never treat them like how you used to know them. When you are around them, never remind them of their former level. Accord them the respect of their current level.
RULE No 10, TALK AND EAT LESS WHEN YOU ARE AROUND THEM...
Eat from the house to avoid you not going there with hunger. I reject their offers as much as possible. Nothing communized you like eating in public.
RULE No 11: NEVER REMIND THEM OF A HELP YOU HAVE RENDERED TO THEM IN THE PAST...
This would only close their heart and if possible they look for a means to pay you off.
RULE No 12: APPROACH THEM AS SOLUTIONS TO THEIR PROBLEM AND NOT PROBLEM TO THEIR SOLUTIONS.
RULE No 13: DON'T COUNT THEIR BLESSINGS FOR THEM IN THEIR PRESENCE.
RULE No 14: RESPECT THEM AND IGNORE THEM MILDLY AS POSSIBLE...
They would respect you and look for you.
God can use anybody as your destiny connector by opening your door to greatness, but your character can close it and make or delay you from archiving your goals of greatness.
RULE No 1: HIDE YOUR "POVERTY FROM THEM".
The easiest way to shut down your relationship with great people is to carry your poverty on your
head in every discussion. Hide your poverty. I don't say form what you are not, be real but now it that" poverty scares them. "
RULE No 2: DON'T MAKE YOUR PROBLEM, THEIR PROBLEM.
Never make your problem their problem. If you must seek help, never pressurize them. Allow them to do it in their own way and time.
RULE No 3: LOOK FOR OPPORTUNITY TO GIVE
Gifts open their heart for your greatness. But you must give attaching no expectancy to it if the heart must stay open.
RULE No 4: DON'T CALL THEM WHEN YOU have Nothing SERIOUS TO SAY...
If you must check on them, send SMS.
RULE No 5: DON'T CALL THEM AMID PEOPLE, JUST TO SHOW YOU KNOW THEM AND SHOUTING THEIR NAMES ON PHONE.
RULE No 6: DON'T THROW YOURSELF AT THEM...
Be sensitive to know the degree to which they want your closeness.
RULE No 7: WHEN YOU ARE BROKE, AVOID SCROLLING DOWN YOUR CONTACTS AND BE CALLING...
Nothing closes their heart faster like seeing you as or being a financial burden to them.
RULE No 8: DON'T GOSSIP ANYTHING ABOUT THEM IN PUBLIC...
Protect their shortcomings and other things you are privy to.
RULE No 9: RELATE WITH THEM ACCORDING TO THEIR CURRENT LEVEL...
Never treat them like how you used to know them. When you are around them, never remind them of their former level. Accord them the respect of their current level.
RULE No 10, TALK AND EAT LESS WHEN YOU ARE AROUND THEM...
Eat from the house to avoid you not going there with hunger. I reject their offers as much as possible. Nothing communized you like eating in public.
RULE No 11: NEVER REMIND THEM OF A HELP YOU HAVE RENDERED TO THEM IN THE PAST...
This would only close their heart and if possible they look for a means to pay you off.
RULE No 12: APPROACH THEM AS SOLUTIONS TO THEIR PROBLEM AND NOT PROBLEM TO THEIR SOLUTIONS.
RULE No 13: DON'T COUNT THEIR BLESSINGS FOR THEM IN THEIR PRESENCE.
RULE No 14: RESPECT THEM AND IGNORE THEM MILDLY AS POSSIBLE...
They would respect you and look for you.
God can use anybody as your destiny connector by opening your door to greatness, but your character can close it and make or delay you from archiving your goals of greatness.